Why a Will Does Not Avoid Probate

By | Probate

Most high net worth families assume that once a will is drafted, their estate is protected. It is not. A will does not avoid probate. It simply tells a probate court what to do with assets after death, and probate itself comes with real costs. For a family with $10 million or more in assets, administrative fees through probate can run into significant sums. A properly funded trust avoids this process. An unfunded one, even if it exists on paper, does not. What the New Federal Exemption Actually Changed The federal estate tax exemption now sits at $15 million per person, or $30 million for a married couple, indexed for inflation. For most families, that number removes the tax question entirely. But estates above that threshold still face a 40% tax rate on the excess, payable within nine months of death. A single person with a $20 million estate, for…

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019: Florida Estate Planning for High Net Worth Families After the New Tax Law

By | Podcasts

A fifteen million dollar federal exemption sounds like permission to stop planning. Tom Moss, attorney at Sawyer and Sawyer, P.A., explains why that assumption costs wealthy families the most. This episode breaks down what actually changed under the new tax law, why a will never avoids probate, and what happens when an estate crosses that $15 million line at a 40% tax rate, a scenario more Central Florida families are facing as wealth from New York, California, and Illinois keeps moving south. Tom walks through the residency tests Florida actually enforces, the homestead protections families overestimate, and the funding formulas buried in decade-old trusts that can quietly redirect an entire estate. He also covers what a first meeting with his firm looks like and why family dynamics matter as much as the balance sheet. For any family sitting on real wealth, this conversation is the reality check worth hearing before…

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What to Do in the First Weeks After a Dementia Diagnosis

By | Elder Care, Elder Fraud

A dementia or Alzheimer’s diagnosis brings a specific kind of fear into a family, fear about the parent’s health, and fear about decisions nobody has made yet. Attorney Cary Moss sees this fear walk through her office door every week. Her first job is rarely legal. It’s calming people down enough to start making decisions. The Diagnosis Alone Doesn’t Decide Legal Capacity A cognitive decline diagnosis by itself doesn’t prove someone can’t make decisions. Capacity exists on a spectrum, and someone in the early stages of dementia may still understand what a legal document does, who they’re naming, and what authority they’re handing over. Cary Moss meets with clients alone, without family in the room, specifically because someone else’s answers can mask what the client actually understands. If she’s uncertain, she’ll ask for a letter from the person’s doctor before moving forward. The diagnosis opens a conversation. It doesn’t decide…

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018: Power of Attorney and Dementia: What Florida Families Must Sign Before It’s Too Late

By | Podcasts

This episode covers what families should do in the first weeks after a parent is diagnosed with dementia or Alzheimer’s, from legal capacity to guardianship costs. Cary Moss explains the difference between a dementia diagnosis and a legal loss of capacity, and outlines which documents, including the durable power of attorney, living will, and healthcare surrogate, need to be signed first. Cary Moss also details how guardianship works in Florida, including the timeline, court process, and typical costs, and explains why dementia patients are common targets for financial exploitation. She shares specific examples from her practice, including a client who lost $400,000 to a scam, and outlines Medicaid planning strategies that remain available even after a diagnosis. Listeners will come away with a clear understanding of which steps to take first. In this episode, you will hear: Why a dementia or Alzheimer’s diagnosis does not automatically mean a parent has…

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When Good Intentions Aren’t Enough: Protecting a Disabled Loved One’s Future

By | Estate Planning

Parents of children with disabilities carry a specific fear that standard estate planning was never built to address. They worry that leaving money directly to a disabled child will disqualify them from Medicaid, SSI, or other government benefits. That fear is valid. What families do with it, though, determines whether their planning actually works. The Two Mistakes That Show Up Most Often The first mistake is cutting the disabled child out of the estate entirely. Parents assume government benefits will cover everything indefinitely. They won’t, or at least they can’t be counted on to. Benefit programs change. Funding gets cut. A child who is fine today may have significantly different needs in ten years. The second mistake is leaving assets to a non-disabled sibling with an informal agreement to “take care” of the disabled family member. That sibling may have every intention of doing the right thing. But a lawsuit,…

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017: Special Needs Trusts: What Florida Families Must Know Before It’s Too Late

By | Podcasts

When a child has a disability, a standard estate plan can do real harm. Cary Moss, Managing Partner at Sawyer & Sawyer, P.A. and a Florida elder law attorney with nearly three decades of experience, breaks down exactly how supplemental needs trusts work, where they fail, and what families must do to protect a disabled loved one’s benefits while still leaving them something to live on. Cary covers the most common mistakes parents make, including cutting a disabled child out of the estate entirely or leaving funds informally to a sibling. She explains the full planning picture, from trustees and beneficiary advocates to trust protectors and guardian advocates, and why getting the legal language wrong can collapse the entire structure. No family should wait for a crisis to start this conversation. The right plan, built now, protects everything. In this episode, you will hear: Why cutting a disabled child out…

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The $2,000 Rule That Changes Everything for Special Needs Families

By | Estate Planning

One number determines whether a disabled beneficiary keeps their government benefits or loses them entirely. That number is $2,000. Exceed it in countable resources by even one dollar, and SSI and Medicaid eligibility disappears. Most families don’t learn this until the damage is already done. Why a Direct Inheritance Can Do More Harm Than Good The instinct to leave money directly to a child with special needs comes from love. It also tends to backfire. When a parent names a disabled child as a direct beneficiary on a life insurance policy or in a will, that inheritance counts as a resource. A $400,000 payout lands in the beneficiary’s name, pushes them past the $2,000 threshold, and terminates their benefits on the spot. The family then faces the far harder work of rebuilding eligibility from scratch, with fewer options than they had before. A supplemental needs trust solves this before it…

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016: Supplemental Needs Trusts: How to Protect Your Child’s Benefits in Florida

By | Podcasts

A $2,000 asset limit stands between a disabled beneficiary and the government benefits keeping them afloat. Elder law attorney Cary Moss joins the show to walk families through supplemental needs trusts and why getting this planning wrong can cost far more than money. Cary breaks down the three types of trusts families encounter, first party, third party, and pooled, explains what each one covers, and draws a clear line between what a trust can pay for and what will trigger a loss of benefits. She also addresses Florida-specific programs, from ABLE United accounts to vetted pooled trust organizations like AGED and Guardian Trust Foundation. The episode closes with a scenario every Orlando parent should hear: a $400,000 life insurance policy named the wrong beneficiary, and what that mistake sets in motion. In this episode, you will hear: Why leaving money directly to a disabled child can eliminate their government benefits…

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The Day Your Child Turns 18, Your Legal Authority Ends

By | Uncategorized

Most parents don’t see it coming. One day you’re signing permission slips and making doctor’s appointments, and the next your child turns 18 and the law treats them as a fully independent adult. You can no longer access their medical records, negotiate their bills, or make a single financial decision on their behalf without their written authorization. That shift happens overnight, and most families aren’t ready for it. The good news is that four straightforward legal documents fix the problem entirely. The Durable Power of Attorney Covers More Than You Think A durable power of attorney assigns an agent, typically a parent, to handle financial and contractual decisions for a young adult. That sounds abstract until you picture the real scenarios. Your college freshman has a billing dispute with the bursar’s office. Your 19-year-old gets into a car accident and needs someone to negotiate with the insurance company. Your child…

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015: Don’t Wait Until an Emergency: Planning for 18-Year-Olds

By | Podcasts

The day a child turns 18, parents lose the legal right to make any decision for them. Medical calls, financial disputes, lease negotiations, all of it. Cary Moss and Tom Moss, attorneys at Sawyer & Sawyer, P.A., lay out exactly what documents every young adult needs the moment that birthday hits: a durable power of attorney, a living will, a designation of healthcare surrogate, and a HIPAA release form. Cary and Tom speak from personal experience. They have two sons, 22 and 20, and they’ve been through this themselves. If your child is approaching 18, or already there, this episode tells you what to do and why waiting is a risk you don’t want to take. In this episode, you will hear: Why turning 18 changes everything for parents, legally and financially The durable power of attorney and what it actually covers Three healthcare documents every young adult needs in…

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